This is one more thing I have learnt from experience...

if a guy tells you that you're like a guy and he can chill with you like he chills with his guy buddies. And this particular guy who is saying these things to you is a guy you want romantically, then sorry you just got royally caught in the friend zone!

If you are a guy and the girl you like romantically just told you that she can talk to you like she talks to her chick friends... then well.. that's all you will be.. her chick friend in a guy's body!

The number of times I have been called a 'dude' 'bhai' etc etc by guys I like, I could become everyone's universal brother!! And the funny bit is that I am as girly as it gets... people say it is in my attitude.. Honestly the attitude is getting worrying now... :P

I mean just imagine a setting where I am alone with the boy (FINALLY!),we're looking into each other's eyes and I am thinking 'how romantic' while he's pouring his heart out about his ex gf's, how they treated him, his boss's devious plans to bug him etc etc... And I am thinking 'awwww he can share his deepest secrets with me!' while he's thinking 'wow! she's a dude who I can share my thoughts with!'... I basically just became the boy's personal Agony Aunt and his newly found best friend!

*sigh*

While she waited for love...
Spent her days wishing for a man she couldn't have...
While she cried silent tears...
And prayed to whoever it may concern
to give her answers...
While she spent her nights awake...
And her days immersed in piles of paper...
While she stared vacant eyed...
And lost hope.. slowly and steadily...

He sat behind her..
Hoping she will turn around once..
He walked across her...
Hoping she would call to him once...
He lay underneath her feet...
Caught her when she fell...
With his invisible hands...
The hands she never saw or understood..

And so every time she thought she was going to drift away..
There was a thin thread of his hope holding her.. stopping her from floating away..

Before life passes both of them... someday maybe.. she will turn around and he wont be invisible anymore..
Her answers are infront of her.. If only she sees it...